A few summers ago, I was sitting next to an adolescent male participating
in our agency's Digital Storytelling workshop as he was narrating parts of his adoption
story to me. This youth and his family had accessed our post-adoption
services throughout the years, but at this time this adoptee’s needs, connected
to his adoption story, had begun to manifest in new ways. This once young
boy whose story was riddled with trauma and neglect now sat before me understanding
his story in a whole new way. And, although he had been adopted for years into
a loving, stable home, this young man's development allowed him to create a new
layer for him to discover, process, and integrate his story.
As we worked together to create his Digital
Storytelling narrative, this young man shared he used to collect ketchup
packets when he was young and stuff them in his pockets to ensure he would have
something to eat later because he never knew when he would eat next. He
then began to detail even more graphic parts of his story and grieve the moments
of trauma, loss, and pain associated with his story. And for me, what I knew about adoption based
on my research and training came to life once again, demonstrating how a child’s
view of adoption changes over time creating opportunities and challenges for
many youths to now reintegrate and make sense of their past. This boy’s ketchup packets had taken on a
whole new narrative for him as an adolescent and having supportive services to
help process his new awareness, emotions, and recall of his trauma history were
vital and helpful. This young man’s story has stuck with me and is the impetus that
drives me to create awareness around the complex, lifelong experience of
adoption. Hence, my heart here is to share with others more about adoption, its
complexity, and create both a peaked curiosity and interest in an area of
social work for which I have developed a great passion.
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